Wednesday, February 07, 2007


This afternoon as I addressed an envelope with notes, drawings and some stickers that one of my younger children was sending to some friends of hers in a nearby town, I thought to myself 'why don't I surprise their mum with a note'? After all, the kids are enjoying receiving mail in the mailbox; why should they be the only ones to enjoy this? Of late, my children have been receiving mail from friends who live in various states and that satisfying rip of the envelope simply can not be reproduced by clicking the mouse and seeing a number representing how many emails you have. Then I thought why stop at one friend, I have a few friends that might enjoy that nice feeling of a thick envelope that does not bear the address of the local utility company. And why, I asked myself, should my pretty snowflake stamps be wasted on only bills? Why not also use them to grace an envelope bearing good cheer and happy tidings?

I pulled out a stack of unlined paper and searched my desk for the pen that had just been there and began. There was a very satisfying feeling as blue letters flowed across the page and I found myself writing:

"I decided to write to you the old fashioned way, with ink and paper" and as I wrote that a thought struck me. How can this actually be so old fashioned when only a few short years ago this was still the principle means of communication, after the phone of course. Following this was another thought - will it soon come to pass that relatives will no longer find bundles of letters tied with a faded ribbon, forgotten in an old desk that had belonged to Grampa? Will instead our descendants find lost and damaged hard drives kicking around in the dusty corners of attics or basements, with only the most intuitive relative thinking that there just might be communications saved on that ancient piece of machinery. And, if they are able to retrieve anything at all off that hard drive - will they be letters, or saved emails and chats?

I love this era of emails and instant messaging, as well as the ease of being able to backspace when I realize I have left off an e, or missed a word entirely. I was not able to easily remedy these mistakes as I wrote my notes to a variety of friends this morning. But while I appreciate the wonder and practicality of this modern means of communications, it has dawned on me that if I do not make an effort to send the occasional "snail mail", and unless I save and print off most of my emails to my children, extended family and friends a valuable piece of family history will be lost.

Not even this blog is assured of perpetual existence. Thankfully I have saved most of my articles that I have written, but already this piece of our family history is divided between two hard drives. Should I print them off, tie them with a ribbon and stick them in the far corner of a desk drawer? Or perhaps I should download them onto a CD and carefully preserve them this way? And unless I label the CD and the jewel case carefully; should a great granddaughter find what will surely seem, to her, to be an 'ancient' means of keeping information, she might decide throw this useless old CD out.

However, if I print off the essays and articles I have written, even if the ink has faded and the paper yellowed and the dust causes her to sneeze uncontrollably; that faded ribbon will signify to her to that something of value is wrapped within.

4 comments:

M. Alexander said...

I love writing letters and after I was married I tried to write to my inlaws who lived overseas every week. I would write pages about what we were doing and all kinds of things. I thought it was interesting but apparently my fil said "she can write pages and pages and never say anything at all"! I never wrote another letter. LOL

I enjoy getting letters but I guess not everyone does!

Lorcan said...

Yes,... I try and keep my desk a proper place to write, though, I must admit, I have stopped writing as much as I did before email became so much of my communication. I still keep Grand-da's desk a place to center down to write, when I write by hand... (link to photo)
http://www.flickr.com/photos/lorcanotway/363958564/ . There is something about the proper paper, envelope and environment in which to write, which prepares one to say things ... better.
I also keep stamps for important uses, a letter to the Simon Wiesenthal Center takes a
Raoul Wallenberg stamp, for example (I was on a jury with a Russian who knew Wallenberg in the Gulags - by the way... ). What a wonderful bit of world culture that we came up with the idea of stamps which can say so much.

Thine in frith and friendship
lor

Anonymous said...

Well, I was one of the beneficiaries today of this wonderful habit, and my children write letters once a week during school to whomever they like instead of spelling and language arts lessons.
Thank you, dear friend, for remembering me, for you were correct in your anticipation of a smile on my face. I loved getting your letter, and although I type a quick reply..... I am looking forward in anticipation of creating a smile on YOUR face.
Blessings and much love!!!
Michaela

Unknown said...

I often wonder the same... and I guess I am showing my *age* when I readily admit to writing my book in (gasp) LONGHAND... I just don't trust the computer fully!!! I would absolutely die if I got to the end of my book (and believe me, THAT is a LOOOOOONG way off..) and it somehow got lost in cyberspace.....

Thanks for continuing to write online! You often brighten my day this way!!! :~)

Lisa